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How To Tell If Someone's A Narcissist

After this interview I did for ELLE about whether or not social media is creating narcissists, a strange thing happened. A bunch of people from all over the country emailed me describing their bosses, ex's, friends, and various family members -- and ...

Declutter Like a BOSS

I'm pretty sure my lack of sentimentality when I'm in 'declutter mode' freaks my very sweet and sentimental husband out sometimes. I love getting rid of things, letting go, and keeping it fresh.  I definitely didn't think I needed a tutorial on ...

How To Interpret Your Own Dreams

It's hard to deny the complete phenomenon that is dreaming.  Your body and brain are in such an utterly unique state when you dream.  Once you hit REM sleep, your brain paralyzes all your muscles except the ones in your eyes, and your ...

The 5 Best Non-Holiday Movies to Watch This Holiday Season

Can I tell you a secret? In corporate courtyards across the country, white lights are strewn all over trees with no leaves,  window stores are decorated in unique but somehow predictable ways and, of course, everyone's walking around with ...